For years I have vowed to and tried unsuccessfully to write a column about why I love to garden. One quickly can mention serenity, solitude, beauty or even producing a few tasty morsels for our tables, but these always come across as trite.
What I needed was some compelling event to set me off. For those of you who are less passionate. you may replace the words "set me off" with inspire. Maybe I was waiting for some country singer to wail that you ain't lived until you've played in the dirt.
I didn't get my song but a recent article in the Wall Street Journal did the job. It came in one sentence in a lengthy article about time management. That sentence stated that if you earn more than $44,000 annually you should hire a lawn service. Your time was too valuable to do it yourself.
My argument is not with the lawn service professionals, but with the above writer. He has it exactly backwards. The more successful we are the more we need a relief valve on our time. Gardening is about time. It's about brief quieting escapes from a world that wildly spins by as we try to hang on.
In the garden, time seems to stand still. How often do a few minutes in the garden turn into hours without us even noticing?
If your budget permits, and you want several years of high maintenance, you can almost create an instant garden, but for most of us it is a much slower process. We must wait for our plants to mature. It may take a few weeks, a few months or with a large tree nearly a lifetime. Our reward is watching and waiting as the changes unfurl. Plants haven't learned that the world is in a hurry, or perhaps they are smart enough not to care.
Our gardens are our space. With your hands you can craft that space to be yours. It is something you can see, smell, touch and feel. I guess we could also add taste without too much imagination. Working the brain is wonderful, but I sense it quickly leads to stress if we never take time to enjoy our basic senses. Our well being demands a mix.
Gardening gives me the opportunity to forget about time, to establish and define my space, to escape the rat race and to keep stress from affecting my well being.
I will quickly admit there are other activities and hobbies that can bring the same results. My point is that you need something or some things to do it. Gardening is one of my some things.
To close I will quote an apple grower from New England. "Very few people feel a connection to the land, but that connection is critical to a person's sense of well being." Gardening on any scale is a way to re-establish that connection.