As one who is old enough to remember when Memorial Day was May 30 instead of a long weekend, I also remember that it also marked a milestone in my grandmother's garden. It still does.
Grandmother always used Memorial Day as a reference when counseling a young boy waiting for spring flowers to unfurl. More than half a century ago the late May garden was built around peonies, bearded iris, Oriental poppies and a gangly wiegelia bush with red flowers.
As I look out my window today I see the same plants in bloom. What is striking is how different mine look than they did in grandmother's garden. Her peonies were double and red, pink or white. Our possible selection from the color palette and petal arrangements has grown considerably.
Her bearded iris were small flowered, and white, yellow, blue or a red and yellow bi-color. The Oriental poppies were orange. I've already mentioned gangly.
I'd bet that one would be hard pressed to find the plants that dotted grandmother's Memorial Day garden. If we could, they would be ho hum at best and I'm sure they would not go home to your garden. The plant side of the garden industry has worked great wonders, but at the same time may have destroyed the anticipation.
As I look around the blooms in my garden, there are multitudes of plants that grandmother would never have dreamed. Then, if you wanted to see mountain laurel you went to the woods. Today, I merely have to peer out my kitchen window or step out my bedroom door.
I could ramble on and on, but I guess I already have. My point is that Memorial Day, and I wont say Memorial Day weekend, is a high point in our gardens. The question is what's next.
How do we have the same beauty in our gardens say on Independence Day in July or on Labor Day in early September or even Thanksgiving in November?
Liberal use of annuals should provide the color answer to July and September.
But you say I want a perennial garden. Then I have two suggestions. Crack the books and create a succession of bloom through plant selection. The easy way to do the same thing is to set a plant budget and hit the nursery for blooming additions each month. I don't care whether your budget is two or twenty plants, you will get there.
Oops, in my exuberance I put Thanksgiving in there so I better say something... For that one you need to think evergreens, ornamental grasses, bark and berries. That isn't hard.
It's fun to remember the anticipation I had each spring with grandmother. Watching my older grandchildren, all under age four, I fear that it is me who has changed more than the garden.